The People Who Live Next Door

I know what my fellow bloggers/Facebook friends do, where they live, where they went on a holiday, what their last post/status was about but I don’t know the same about my neighbors. Funny, isn’t it?

Being a 90s kid, I understand that this was not the scenario a decade ago. Those days, neighbors were the closest group of people after one’s family. They were always a part of a family’s joy as well as sufferings. Those were the days of petty arguments followed by apologies and promises of everlasting friendship. Those were the days when kids were more interested in whats cooking in the house of the aunt who lives next door. In fact, probably most of our free time was spent in our neighbor’s house than our own, or in playing ‘catching cook’ with the society kids.

But technology again has intervened like a jealous, stubborn girl who does not like sharing her friends with others. People are no longer a part of a neighborhood. Playgrounds lie in desolation with an exception of a few lonely kids once in a while. Today’s children have virtual friends without actually going outdoors.

While adults of the house spend much of their free time in stalking people on social media, checking out (and burning in jealousy, of course) holiday pictures of high school mates they haven’t probably met since farewell. But ask them about their neighbors and you would probably be informed that they are not nosy neighbors.

I don’t know how many of you all would agree but I really miss those days when I could get a ready solution to any problem from my neighbor. There wasn’t any need of joining any kind of support group then. Although the idea of virtual friends is interesting and the benefits of social media probably outnumber the drawbacks, I believe once in a while we need to be grounded to reality. We need to retain the good practices of our ancestors to ensure that they are not lost forever in this digital era.



  1. rhythminlife says:

    Wow…..You are reading my mind. I miss those days. I grew up in the 90s too and as kids, we created play and did wait to be entertained. Right now I am reading a book “love your life, not theirs book” by Rachel cruise and she talks about the jealous we get when we see other people’s lives on social media. Not to mention, most of what we see is not reality. It’s snippets of people’s lives. Thanks for this post.

    1. Ncis says:

      Hey…thank you for reading my post!
      Though I try to keep my head in the future, I do miss how much simpler things were in the 90s.
      It was pure happiness for everyone. The music, movies, cartoons, shows, all taught us something about life that what I miss about the 90’s.I was happy and I had really good memories during the 90s.

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